Anxiety has always been a hassle when we are dating. It keeps us from doing some tactics in impressing or maybe seducing our date - be it a learned or practiced tactic. It makes us forget the things that we practiced or some things that we have planned to do. Sometimes, anxiety is even visible in our face - sweating, blushing, etc. So to avoid feeling anxious around your date, here's a quick dating advice:
This is a technique that the pickup artist, Julian Foxx, calls "Imagine that..."
From the title of the technique, you can almost guess how its done. Yes, this is the time to use your imagination. Simply imagine something specific about her.
For example, If you are square-faced. You might like to imagine that she's totally head over heels when it comes to square-faced men. Or if you're wearing a black shirt or polo, try to imagine that its a total "turn-on" to her.
If she is particularly a redhead, imagine that her high school friends or school mates call her "Ginger."If you notice that she's got some mannerism like adjusting her shirt more often, or fixing her hair with her fingers, run your imagination through them. You can interpret these mannerisms in your own way. So everytime she adjusts her shirt could mean she's feeling horny at the moment. When she's fixing her hair with her fingers, she could be really into you or something.
But before you get too excited in practicing, applying, or experimenting this powerful technique, here's a reality check:
1. Remember that this is just a technique for you to reduce or avoid anxiety while you are around her. This is designed to boost your confidence. So these visualizations that you will have are for you alone to be aware of. These aren't real in the first place. You wouldn't actually give away your imaginations by calling her Ginger or assuming that she's really into you. So be careful.
2. The above examples are just mere examples. The "Imagine that..." technique will be more effective if you apply it according to your own situation. As what Julian Foxx said, "I call it 'Imagine that...' because you have to use your imagination to come up with your own unique visualizations."
Now you have the idea, all you have to do is use it. Its really useful when you have a date or you want to approach some women you really like.
But before you get too excited in practicing, applying, or experimenting this powerful technique, here's a reality check:
1. Remember that this is just a technique for you to reduce or avoid anxiety while you are around her. This is designed to boost your confidence. So these visualizations that you will have are for you alone to be aware of. These aren't real in the first place. You wouldn't actually give away your imaginations by calling her Ginger or assuming that she's really into you. So be careful.
2. The above examples are just mere examples. The "Imagine that..." technique will be more effective if you apply it according to your own situation. As what Julian Foxx said, "I call it 'Imagine that...' because you have to use your imagination to come up with your own unique visualizations."
Now you have the idea, all you have to do is use it. Its really useful when you have a date or you want to approach some women you really like.
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