The Benefits of Being Early

Tardiness is something that's really normal to most of us. Most common situation could be in school for students. Even I have always been late whether it was a doctor's appointment or a party, I always find myself asking for apologies.

Tardiness in fact has become a way of life for most of us. Some don't care about it and are even proud of it. For those who are used to it, its easy to get their selves out of trouble most of the time.

Here's a realization for all of us though: the amount of opportunities we get are directly correlated to how EARLY we are to things.

Here's an example situation:

I had a dinner meeting with a client at exactly 8pm and there I was, bursting my way out of the house when I suddenly remembered that I have changed the clock the night before. So I checked at my wristwatch and I wasn't late yet. In fact, I have some more time to kill.

So being early was something new to me. So I took my time getting to the place. I stopped into a coffee shop first and picked up some coffee.

Then I got myself with about half a dozen girls, and two of which I actually ended up sleeping with.

That's how I realized that if hadn't been running early, I would never have met those women. Also, it was a very relaxing state for me being early which was clearly perceptible to the women I have been chatting with.

Through this, I have also realized that my behavior pattern before had lost me some opportunities. Because every time I was running late to something I couldn't get to talk to some girls I saw. I always ran out of time and that is my excuse as always. However valid it may seem, it was still an excuse.

With that excuse, the solution was very clear and its my dating advice for you guys:

Start being early!

We usually meet women on our way to somewhere. Since most of us are not full time pickup artist, it is not as easy to approach women and chat with them as how the pickup artist do it. So being early would give us more time to meet people especially women.

So you'll thank me later with these dating tips of mine if you get to meet more women by being early. Though there are instances where its fine to be late and that's a date with a woman.