Perhaps one of the most common problems for men when it comes to dating is how to approach a woman. There are a lot of tips, techniques, methods, or whatever-you-wanna-call-it that have surfaced all over the internet. You may actually find new techniques promoted by different dating gurus or pickup artists - heard of the mystery method from PUA, Mystery? The truth here is that these techniques already existed before.
Flirting is a method that has been used ages ago but is still very effective today even with the existence of the "mystery method" or the dating e-books of David DeAngelo. For guys who are yet starting to join the dating community, flirting will be an easy and effective way to begin with. Flirting can be done in various ways: body language, facial expression, or in a conversation.
Never underestimate the power of a smile. You can start flirting with a girl by showing her that warm and friendly smile. Your eyes is actually a good tool in flirting. Winking and a lot of eye contact can give you more chances of getting a date. Just don't overdo the winking or the girl may think you have some eye irritation. Keep it natural so that she will know that you are interested with her. In making an eye contact, hold your gaze longer than usual to see how she responds.
Sometimes, we may not be aware that our body movements are already showing some flirting signs. Frequently rubbing your hands or wrists with her, playing with your hands or hers, sitting facing a woman with your legs open, and a lot more. When flirting, it will be very helpful if you show confidence. Keep your posture as tall and as firm as possible. Remember to be moderate and not overdo your flirting signs because she may get uncomfortable with it.
Learn how to read the flirting signs of girls as well so that you can respond to them. You may see someone pushing her breasts in your direction or showing her thighs. Do not misinterpret it with some sexual interest. She may only be flirting with you.
When having a conversation, choose topics that you are interested in and avoid deep conversations about politics, religion, etc. The important thing here is that you both enjoy the conversation.
Flirting is very simple yet fun. You do not necessarily have to use any pickup lines, memorize a script, or follow what David DeAngelo has to say about dating. Keep practicing and flirting will be easier for you. Be confident, feel comfortable and relaxed, and enjoy!
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