Attraction is a powerful tool to successful dating. Even a serious relationship would last without attraction. Men get easily attracted to women through physical appearance. While women tend to get attracted with men's personality than their outward looks.
When you go to a club, there are always those guys whom girls would set their eyes and flirt on. If you happen to be among them, then having a date won't be too much of a problem. You may just have a hard time choosing whom to go with for the night. But if not, then its time you learn the secret on how to attract the girls' attention.
1. Smile. As always, the smile is your most important weapon in attraction, even David DeAngelo would agree to this. Don't put too much effort on it though because you may look really stupid. Smile naturally as if you're having a great time. You will look approachable, friendly and more attractive by wearing that smile. Girls will find it easier to flirt with you as well.
2. If you want to get noticed, you should be at the best spot of the place and where should it be? At the center of the room, of course. Where you are matters in attracting girls. Be at the center standing, interacting with others, or just let your body go with the beat of the music. The bars at the corner is also a good place to be at where people come for a drink or just stand by.
If you don't want a time on your own, don't stay long near the wall or at the table. Even Mystery with his costumes and tall hat will not be given any attention if he's just staying at his table.
3. Body language is a frequently used tool of communication in dating, especially with flirting. Women are attracted to men who appears to be more dominant. Here's what you should do: stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart while your toes should be pointing outward. Be more assertive when you talk and do not fold your arms. Drop the habit of chewing a gum or ice and biting your fingernails. Aside that it is sometimes gross, it is also a sign of anxiety which is not very attractive to others.
So we were talking about attracting the girls' attention not by acting stupid or making a shameful scene but by being the apple of their eyes. Now you don't need to read some dating e-books from David DeAngelo, just follow the three tips mentioned above and be ready socializing and flirting with girls.
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