It is no secret that majority of men (if not all) gets nervous when asking a woman out for a date. Approaching women even scares the hell out of most of us. Honestly, one of the reasons behind this is our fear of rejection. It would be such a shame if we get rejected. But rejection is something that we cannot avoid. Even David DeAngelo, an expert in dating, cannot avoid rejection.
Not all of us may want to be a pickup artist or use any of their techniques like the mystery method, but let’s admit it, these pickup artists have the skills that most of us wishes to have.
If you don’t want to be a pickup artist but you want to learn how to attract women, consider these three tips:
Confidence – Develop your self-confidence, it will be your best asset. Women get more attracted to confident men that those who are not. But don’t be over-confident as it may destroy you. Nobody likes an arrogant being. The best thing to do is to stay calm and relax to avoid nervousness. If she feels that you are nervous, she will think that you lack confidence and that will not attract her.
Listening Skills – Good communication is how you should play it. Most dating tips would advise you to think of interesting topics or give you some script. But the key to a good communication is listening. If you listen to what she has to say, it wouldn’t be too difficult to think on what to say next. In fact, your conversation might go smoothly.
Good Grooming – Physical appearance also matters to women. They may not really be looking for handsome or hot men, but what they look in your physical appearance is overall cleanliness. You don’t need to dress like Mystery the Pickup Artist. Just make sure you have taken a bath, shaved, cleaned your shoes, ironed your clothes, etc.
If you don’t want to attend a bootcamp, seminars, or pickup trainings, just develop more confidence, practice your listening skills, and get yourself well-groomed. It will all be enough to start attracting women.
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