January 07, 2010

Online Dating Or Real Dating?

The internet has given some people a chance to find a date or a life partner. People who are too shy to mingle with others or with the opposite sex are taking advantage of the internet in finding someone to date with.


Online dating really seems to be advantageous for introvert or shy people. Approaching someone in person is a hard thing to do. Even if they have read some tips from David DeAngelo, or seen videos of the Pickup Artist, they still have no guts to talk to someone in person nor approach them. Hence, talking or chatting with some stranger on the internet is more preferable - they don't need to see each other face to face so no pressure at all.
A major disadvantage of online dating is that it is too risky. Sharing your personal information is not advisable. So you can never be sure if the person you're exchanging information with is telling the truth as well.

Online dating is not only for shy people though. It is just too convenient for some to find a date on the internet. You can find a lot of profiles of men and women, see their pictures, know their backgrounds... so all you got to do is search and choose whom to approach. But is this really effective? There seems to be a lot of people who got lucky to have met their partners over the internet.

With your pc or laptop at home, do you really need to go out just to find a date? Its up to you, actually. But with real dating, you get to interact with people in the real world and not in the virtual world. Real dating is not just about finding someone to date with but it is also about personal development. There are some people who are only good in online conversations but not in the real world.

With the hype of dating schools, dating seminars, trainings, and bootcamps, more men are stepping out of their comfort zone and join the others not only in improving themselves but learning new dating techniques as well. Pickup artists like Neil Strauss, Julian Foxx, and Mystery have helped a lot of men in developing their own dating skills.

Online dating can be fun, but isn't going out and meeting new people while partying or doing some sports more fun?

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