Pickup Artists Are Not Born Experts

A very common problem for men is their failure at women. Men dream of going out with the woman they love, like, admire, or just simply with a beautiful lady they want to meet. If you happen to be familiar with the seduction community, you may envy the dating experts David DeAngelo, Mystery, Julian Foxx, or Neil Strauss for their skills in attracting women. Well, envy no more because most of these pickup artists were also one of us who couldn't get a woman to date with. In short, they were not born to be experts in women like us.

Let's talk about Neil Strauss a.k.a. Style. He authored the New York Times Bestseller, "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists." The book tells about his experience in entering the pickup artist community.

The book maybe about pickup but Neil Strauss was not born a pickup artist nor an expert in dating. Although he is now considered to be a famous pickup artist, Neil Strauss is actually an American author - a contributing editor at Rolling Stone and he also writes for The New York Times.

Just like David DeAngelo, Neil Strauss was also one of the guys who couldn't get any girls to date with. So when he came across the seduction community, he started to join online discussion groups. As he got more involved, Neil Strauss attended Mystery's bootcamp. The bootcamp is what helped Style become a pickup artist. He learned different advice and techniques on how to approach a woman, how to respond in certain situations, and most especially how to be a real pickup artist.

All of these experiences in his journey in becoming a pickup artist were written in his book, "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists." From then on, he became one of the famous pickup artists in the community.

See, the famous Neil Strauss was once a failure in dating with women but he managed to become a pickup artist. You may not dream of becoming a famous pickup artist like him but you can be an expert in dating with women.

You may start by joining online communities, read and participate on discussions about pickup and seduction. That way, you will become more familiar about dating and pickup. PUAs usually give out free dating tips in their newsletters, so subscribe to them. When you're ready, attending trainings, seminars, or a bootcamp will be more helpful.

Now that we know how these famous dating experts became who they are now, there is no reason to envy them. Instead, we should be more encouraged to develop our own skills and be an expert with women, too.